It's my birthday and I'll cry if I want to.

This week has been rough. 

Tuesday my car broke down. Car problems are honestly the worst.

These really great guys helped me though (while stranded in a parking lot) and Alex Webb made me laugh, 

so it could of been worse.

 Plus, My sister and her husband just so happened to be in Jersey visiting my parents, so my brother in law so willingly let me use his car the rest of the week. 

So even though car problems are really crappy, great things happened. 

Then all these beautiful people came to visit...

Great memories made. Love everyone of them. 

Then they decided to leave. 

Dan was driving me to my sister's apartment to go get my brother in laws car

(did I mention that Dan is driving a new 2012 Jetta? Hate him.)

Well...the car didn't start. Dead battery. I cried. I hate cars.

Maybe this will be a really funny story...next year....but at the moment...

It's my birthday and I'll cry if I want to. 

At least I still have this girl to hang out with. So I'll stop complaining.

Trials are for everyone, I really do get that. I just hate them. I like to think of myself as a very independent person, I hate asking people to have to help me. Maybe it's my pride, I don't know, but it is really hard for me. So this week, I'm learning how to let people help me and I am so thankful for the friends that have/are taking the time to to help me and show their love towards me. 

I'm forever grateful for them.

Keepcalm.Carryon.

ps. My birthday is actually tomorrow and I better not be crying.

Thursday's Twin Tip

Welcome to the first

Thursday's Twin Tip!

You see, Kelsey and I are straight up twins.

We wear the same outfits. Usually not planned. Key word. Usually.

We graduated together. {and wore the same outfits to graduation}

We have the same friends.

We both can't get jobs...hahaha...seriously though.

And for a last example of how we are twins...we just commented on a friend's facebook status at the same time and said the same thing. Its seriously straight odd. We love it. Plus, who doesn't love a set of twins?!

We decided to do something together on our blogs that was twinish.

So please join us every Thursday as we share our most fabulous tips with all of you!



Today's Tip: Friendship--

How to be a good friend?

My tip for friendship and being a good friend goes a little something like this:

If you need a friend, you gotta be a friend

I like to think I've gotten wiser in my years and I've learned that the best way to be a good friend is to be yourself.

We change as we grow up and our outlook on life changes. Some friends will embrace those changes and love you for who you are and some won't understand why you've changed. I promise that if you are true to yourself and show people who you really are then your friends will always stick by you.

But remember: You gotta do the same.

Love the people around you and make sure they know you love them.

Happy Thursday!

Keepcalm.Carryon.